Have YOU ever given serious advice and strategy to a friend or family member (when asked), and then told YOUR WORDS are NOT THE ANSWER to THEIR problem? Suddenly, THEY want to ARGUE and accuse you of tearing them down emotionally and psychologically BECAUSE of the REQUIREMENTS and HOOPS that THEY NEED to PERFORM in order to get THEMSELF out of trouble? All BECAUSE they WANT YOU to DO the HARD WORK FOR THEM???? THEN YOU persevere and still DESIRE to assist by ASKING them to WRITE YOUR SUGGESTIONS on a piece of paper. They FEEL INSULTED, just because YOU ASKED! Always assume as if THEY NEVER REMEMBER ..... because, if they did remember, this situation would never have begun........
Obviously, they never valued your time, nor your words of wisdom. The individual most likely was looking for you to hold their hand through the process and instead, the answer GIVEN was a polite NO! The answer was not to their liking and therefore the negative reaction to a simple response to their question.
They are full of BullShock!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ANSWER..... DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME.... EVER!
Obviously, they never valued your time, nor your words of wisdom. The individual most likely was looking for you to hold their hand through the process and instead, the answer GIVEN was a polite NO! The answer was not to their liking and therefore the negative reaction to a simple response to their question.